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adnan
Joined: 29 Jun 2002 Posts: 2847 Location: Ex-Muslim from Pakistan, now in USA
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Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2003 12:24 pm Post subject: |
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Pharell,
get well soon. This post alleged that we apostates were never muslims, and that is the main subject of this post, so please get back to the topic and prove that i was not a muslim when i was a muslim.
the contradictions will be addressed when this matter is resolved.
Adnan _________________ O Muslims, Leave Islam. When Allah asks you "Why did you leave Islam?", tell him "Because, You said in Quran 2:256,'there is no compulsion in religion'." |
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Egyptian Kafir

Joined: 29 Jan 2003 Posts: 474
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Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2003 2:01 pm Post subject: |
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deleted _________________ “The mind of a bigot is like the pupil of the eye; the more light you pour upon it, the more it will contract.” ~ Oliver Wendell Holmes
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Karin

Joined: 14 May 2002 Posts: 727 Location: Connecticut
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Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2003 7:15 am Post subject: |
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| Egyptian Kafir wrote: |
4- I was a member in a Salafi (Wahhabi ideology) Group of extremists (not Al-Ikhwan)...but that was for a very short time and i got out of it.
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Hi EK--
Since we're all anonymous here on the net, can you give us a glimpse into what goes on in groups like this? What goes on at the meetings? Why did you get out after just a very short time? _________________ "Life, liberty, and the pursuit of those who would deny us happiness" |
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Egyptian Kafir

Joined: 29 Jan 2003 Posts: 474
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Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2003 9:37 pm Post subject: |
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deleted _________________ “The mind of a bigot is like the pupil of the eye; the more light you pour upon it, the more it will contract.” ~ Oliver Wendell Holmes
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Cruelty
Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 212
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2003 4:10 am Post subject: Loss of Prayer and Lonliness....... |
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To Pharell
I did pray, and I did miss not prayer.........the same as I miss nicotine now that I have stopped smoking!
It was a crutch, I said words I did not understand knelt before ?????
Maybe I just miss the medatative aspect of it the time to be in my own world.
Losing religion is a difficult thing all of a sudden you are out here and there is nothing above you and nothing below and nothing matters, it is frightening and lonely...... but if it is the truth it has to be dealt with. Just as comming down from any addiction......... |
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Unknown 192
Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 33
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Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2003 10:54 am Post subject: Stubborn Muslim |
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| I have showed this site to a (not so religious) muslim friend to open their eyes to the truth. After reading some posts about wife beating and making some sarcastic comments, he asked me if I thought he would ever leave Islam. I said, "never say never." I have led the horse to water, now how do I make him drink? |
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adnan
Joined: 29 Jun 2002 Posts: 2847 Location: Ex-Muslim from Pakistan, now in USA
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Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2003 11:37 am Post subject: |
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| he may be joking. ask him does he really doubt Islam? does he really beleive in it? if he's doubtful he can come talk to us apostates here. |
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DoctorNO
Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 446
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Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2003 11:39 am Post subject: Re: Stubborn Muslim |
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| Ami wrote: | | I have showed this site to a (not so religious) muslim friend to open their eyes to the truth. After reading some posts about wife beating and making some sarcastic comments, he asked me if I thought he would ever leave Islam. I said, "never say never." I have led the horse to water, now how do I make him drink? |
A wise reply. |
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Unknown 192
Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 33
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Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2003 12:54 pm Post subject: Follow-up for Adnan |
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| adnan wrote: | | he may be joking. ask him does he really doubt Islam? does he really beleive in it? if he's doubtful he can come talk to us apostates here. |
He is joking, he believes in Islam (as he's been spoon fed the good points since birth) and would never leave or convert because to him, it's his "get out of jail free" card. Rather I should say, his get into heaven for free card. It kills me to hear him talk about Islam on the rare occaisions he does because to me it's a load of horse sh*t. When I fight him on certain points and present a logical argument, I'm just wasting my breath cuz it doesn't result in the answer I'm looking for which is that Islam is a lie. When I point out specific examples that defy all logic, he blames the situation on the individual rather than accept that fact that the individual and his way of life is completely justified as per their book. |
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Piggy
Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 835
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Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2003 2:33 pm Post subject: Re: Loss of Prayer and Lonliness....... |
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To Pharell,
This is a cut 'n' paste from a post by Crow Magnon.
"Imam Ash-Shafi`i is of the opinion that if a person shows such laziness in offering Salat that he misses its proper time, then he is liable to make penitence for it. If he does not do so, he should be killed."
So the prayer is obligatory, compulsory and failure to do so without repentance attracts a death sentence.
They are little more than Mohammed's hypno-trance mantra to control the minds and lives of the gullible followers of the false prophet's man made religion. |
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adnan
Joined: 29 Jun 2002 Posts: 2847 Location: Ex-Muslim from Pakistan, now in USA
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Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2003 4:52 pm Post subject: |
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| yea, then its no use, he hasnt reached any water and you cant make him drink.. lost case.. like a typical muslim. play with him, tell him, if allah's so powerful, he shouldnt mind if anyone calls him 4 letter words.. if he says thats fine, he wont, then abuse allah infront of him to break his will, otherwise say "ha, your allah is weak. look at me, you can call me all kinds of 4 letter words, but i wont mind" |
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rand
Joined: 28 Jul 2002 Posts: 1752
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Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2003 8:02 pm Post subject: |
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Ami wrote:
| Quote: | | I have led the horse to water, now how do I make him drink? |
If you respect his views, be a good listener, try to understand, be non-judgemental, non-critical, you can develop a relationship where he can openly share his religious feelings. If you tear him apart, you are more likely to never discuss religion and to have a more distant relationship.
The 1st stage is to try to develop an understanding of his religious views. The deeper you understand it, the more you understand the foundations of his beliefs, the easier it is to tear them down.
One issue that comes up is religious games. See http://www.faithfreedom.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=3500&highlight=
These religious games help him to rationalize the irrational. By understanding these games, you can point out the logical flaws in them. You can even point this flaw out, in a non-religious context.
There is a psychological component to being religious, why must he believe? By dealing with that issue, he may no longer need to believe.
Once you understand the situation better, you are in a better situation to develop a plan.
Recognize that this person might have believed for decades despite the fact that there are so many signs that Islam is a lie. It therefore might be a slow process before you convince him. Therefore it is more important to maintain a rapport/relationship, to be understanding, then to be critical and have him seperate from you.
You can start with subtle doses, and gradually increase them to get an understanding of when he gets offended.
There are subtle and very direct ways of getting a point across, and you need to pick your battles, I think a slow gradual approach might be better.
Rather than tearing islam apart it is often better to ask a question.
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If you want theological problems, then let us know what type of muslim he is, and what do you think his achilles heel is. For example, violence, women issues, grammar problems, imperfect text, logical fallacies. Is he a sunni, shiite or quran-only?
Best wishes,
Rand |
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bob
Joined: 05 Jan 2003 Posts: 370 Location: Paris, France
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2003 1:52 pm Post subject: |
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Piggy,
You say that salaat (prayer) is compulsory and quote CroMagnon concerning the death penalty for non-observance. I remember a Muslim stating to Adnan that he was never a real Muslim because he didn't pray five times a day. This five-times a day praying is considered one of the pillars of Islam and yet NOWHERE in the Quran is it mentioned that the devout Muslim should pray five times a day!
In the Quran there is the Dawn prayer (Salat Al-Fajr ?) the Night Prayer and the Middle Prayer. That's all. Now if "Allah" tells us that he perfected religion in the Quran and also tells us in the Quran that "nothing" has been left out in it, then how come Muslims are adding two extra prayers to what is stipulated in their Holy Book? The five prayers come from a hadith concerning the Miraj.
So the details concerning one of Islam's five pîllars are not found in the Quran - the book that was supposed to make everything clear to believers!
How can any independently minded person who thinks for him or herself take this religion seriously? _________________ "Two things fill the heart with ever renewed awe the more we meditate upon them: the starry firmament above and the moral law within." Immanuel Kant |
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Cruelty
Joined: 31 Dec 1969 Posts: 212
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2003 4:12 pm Post subject: |
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Hey bob you have an excellent point about salat but not only about that!
If the quran says "nothign is left out" then why look at Hadiath at all!!!
In case some quran only muslims think this strengthens their case, be warned that most muslims think of them as heritics! |
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rand
Joined: 28 Jul 2002 Posts: 1752
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2003 7:33 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Ami,
There are different levels of educating him. He could be doing everything in his power to remain insulated and to ignore any form of enlightenment, as you try to persuade him. The next level is where he does not actively take steps to be enlighhtened but he doesn't resist enlightenment. The ideal is where he actively seeks enlightenment. Part of that is to choose times where he is more relaxed, perhaps durng a walk by the beach, or by just creating a relaxed atmosphere.
But you need to really understand someone to get them to not resist or to actively seek enlightenment. An intellectual jihad against FFI could be useful, for an openminded muslim. Another idea is to let him read traditional sites that link to heretical sites. You can actively seek to learn about Islam, and you can start out with softball questions, gradually increasing the questions in intensity.
But undermining Islam can be supersubtle, if you take the time to think about presenting a message.
One needs a certain infrastructure to be able to see outside the box. Muslims can think much more objectively regarding non-Islamic issues then when religion is involved. Islam has logical fallacies, if you informally taught someone logic, where Islam is not being threatened, they will agree with your logic. So if you point out a logical problem with Judaism or Christianty, or with work, etc. they will get it and agree with you. If you teach him empathy, openmindedness, etc. he might agree with you. By giving enough clues, he would have a better chance of figuring it out himself or you'll make it easier to convince him in the future.
Best regards,
Rand |
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Abu Lahab
Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Posts: 67 Location: USA
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Posted: Thu Oct 23, 2003 11:40 am Post subject: |
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Back to the original question...
Yes, back when i was a muslim, I did do my 5 daily salat. Never missed one salat, from 7th grade til my 4th year in college...NOT ONE...I kept this secret between me and allah, I was soo proud of it...I thought I would do this until I met allah on youmalqiama, and see how proud allah would be of me. after I left islam I still prayed because I loved it...and couldn't stop it...it was a strong habit I had from childhood... _________________ Kaffirs: Mount up! |
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