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Q_Q
Joined: 17 Oct 2007 Posts: 3
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 3:42 pm Post subject: Left Islam to never look back again |
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Here’s the story of how I came to leave and despise Islam and everything it stands for.
My parents are from India, my mother was born a hindu and my father a muslim. They met in college in Delhi, the usual thing happened and they got married. During the initial years, they continued to live in India where both worked in fairly well paying jobs. Neither of them was particularly religious & therefore neither tried to get the other to convert.
About three years after their wedding, they moved to Canada where my father’s sister already lived. My aunt and her family were particularly observant muslims and almost immediately began to pressure my father into becoming more religious, while at the same time exerting pressure upon my mother to convert. Worse, once my aunt found out that my parents were using birth control so that my mother could continue with her career, the pressure became even more intense.
Eventually, my father caved and in turn began to shove his religion down my mother’s throat. In order to save her marriage, she ended up converting and stopped using birth control. She became pregnant with twins (my sister & me) soon after. Once we were born, my father forbid my mother from returning to work and wanted her to become his personal baby factory so he could fulfil his warped religious obligations and have a ton of little muslim babies.
For whatever reason however, my mother did not get pregnant again and in time my father began to talk about a second wife. At the same time, under the influence of his extremely traditional brother-in-law, he had become physically abusive towards my mother and was always both physically and verbally abusive towards my sister. Towards me however, his darling son, he was completely permissive. I admit that as a child I took advantage of my father misogyny to gain the upper hand over my sister.
However, despite being the apple of my father’s eye, I was far more attached to my mother. By the time I reached the age of 5 or 6 I began to see that she was being made to suffer through no fault of her own. I also began to see my father for the monster that he had become as he became ever more religious with time.
When I was 7, my father beat my mother particularly badly one evening. When I confronted him about it, his response was chilling. Apparently, our beloved prophet had instructed his followers that it was appropriate and even necessary to beat our wives to keep them in line. I got a lengthy religious lecture from my father about this that evening. I suppose that at the age of 7 I was more intellectually mature than my 40 year old father as I saw the religious nonsense for the vile crap that it was and at the end of the conversation, I got went upstairs and called the police.
That day was the last time I spoke to my father for many many years. Criminal charges were filed against him, my mother, my sister and I all testified against him in court. He was sentenced to 15 years without parole. We also testified against his sister and brother-in-law for inciting conjugal violence. Ironically enough, my cousins testified against their parents as well. Both my aunt & uncle were sent to prison for two years each & their children came to live with us for the duration.
Of course once we were free of my father, my mother returned to her original hindu religion. My sister & I converted as well. My cousins, who at the time were in their teens (16 and 17) also left islam and became hindus.
Over the years, I am now 30, married and with a child of my own, I have often wondered about why my father underwent the transition from a perfectly normal, loving man to a complete monster. The only true changes that occurred in his life were that he moved from India to Canada and that he became progressively more religious and orthodox. The move in and of itself couldn’t change family dynamics therefore it had to have been the religious aspect that led to the changes in my father.
Therefore, as an adult, I decided to find out more about islam. I read the Quran & the hadiths as well as several books and commentaries written by both muslim and non-muslim scholars. The more I read, the more I came to understand how this religion can turn a perfectly normal man into a complete monster. And the more I find out about this religion the more I despise it.
Fortunately, once in prison, my father’s conscience began to bother him and he came to realize just how much pain he had caused. He too examined his metamorphosis and understood that islam was at the root of everything that had gone wrong in his life. He eventually abandoned islam as well and once he was released from prison he too converted to Hinduism.
Today my entire family is happy & healthy. And we have all learnt a very important lesson – never again will any of us allow a practicing muslim to enter our lives.
In any case this is my story. I’m sorry that it is so long, but I wanted to add to the collection here. |
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Ariel

Joined: 09 May 2004 Posts: 5451 Location: The Netherlands.
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 4:01 pm Post subject: |
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Good to see you Q_Q.
Thank you for sharing your story. I am glad your father has seen the light and left Islam. It must be easier for you all.
I wish you a great time at FFI. Enjoy , and I am looking forwards to your posts. _________________ Tabari IX:69
“Killing disbelievers is a small matter to us.” |
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yeezevee
Joined: 17 Feb 2004 Posts: 17115
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 4:01 pm Post subject: |
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| Q_Q: In any case this is my story...He was sentenced to 15 years without parole.. |
That is a long jail term .. any way It is a good story and with GOOD ending dear Q_Q., welcome to FFI., you left Islam So, how is Hinduism now?? I am glad to read you and how did you get to know FFI forum??
with best wishes to you and your family..
yeezevee
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Baal
Joined: 07 Jun 2006 Posts: 4418 Location: Egypt
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 4:01 pm Post subject: |
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Welcome aboard. And He was sentenced to 15 years without parole? was it attempted manslaughter? What charge landed him 15yrs without parole in canada? _________________ "Kad Kazab Alayna Muhammed"
Islam is Not Genetically Inherited from your Parents.
"Child brides in non-Western society is about love, marriage and husband and wife bonds." - AMuslim arguing for his Nabey Al-Saleh |
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yeezevee
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 4:04 pm Post subject: |
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You should do NOT GO IN TO DETAILS of a STORY dear Baal..
with best
yeezevee |
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Q_Q
Joined: 17 Oct 2007 Posts: 3
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 4:14 pm Post subject: |
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| Welcome aboard. And He was sentenced to 15 years without parole? was it attempted manslaughter? What charge landed him 15yrs without parole in canada? |
Yes. He was charged with attempted murder of my mother. Considering how much he had hurt her & the fact that he prevented her from leaving the house to get medical attention amounted to attempted murder in the eyes of the justice system here.
I agree with their assessment of the situation. If he hadn't been stopped he would have ended up killing or permanently maiming her.
I read about this site on the Council of Ex-Muslims of Britain (or something like that) website.
As far as Hinduism goes - I'm glad to be Hindu. I'm not particularly observant, but it is a comfortable religion. The more I understand it, the more I appreciate it. |
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Kaisys

Joined: 05 Dec 2005 Posts: 1902 Location: Ether
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 7:59 pm Post subject: |
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| Baal wrote: |
| Welcome aboard. And He was sentenced to 15 years without parole? was it attempted manslaughter? What charge landed him 15yrs without parole in canada? |
Yes. He was charged with attempted murder of my mother. Considering how much he had hurt her & the fact that he prevented her from leaving the house to get medical attention amounted to attempted murder in the eyes of the justice system here.
I agree with their assessment of the situation. If he hadn't been stopped he would have ended up killing or permanently maiming her.
I read about this site on the Council of Ex-Muslims of Britain (or something like that) website.
As far as Hinduism goes - I'm glad to be Hindu. I'm not particularly observant, but it is a comfortable religion. The more I understand it, the more I appreciate it. |
Pardon me,
to my knowledge standard of living is very high in canada n heard immigrants hv to work their ***** off to make ends meet. How did ur father hv privilege to make ends meet without a working wife.
This is possible only if ur father's family is filthy rich or u were on welfare.
Can ny canuck elaborate me on this?
@Q_Q
If possible plz help us by helping other indians in India realize the dangers of islam. The media is going arnd like like tail on fire to increase hindu muslim marriages. _________________ The God with demands , desires and descrimination is as good as any human. -- Kalu
If you cannot see god in all, how can you see god at all?-DSingh |
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crazy canuck
Joined: 20 Mar 2004 Posts: 6391
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 9:22 pm Post subject: |
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Whole story as narrated by QQ is all b.s. Big time lie!!
Kaisye its possible that the man in this case had a good paying job and wife could have stayed home. Canadian Government pays baby bonuses and other goodies for low income families. All living togather can somehow pull through. There is always welfare and lots of cheating !! Mullahs from mosque will bring halal meat everyday from their own goat farm. Then there are food banks!! Isana is allah!!!
See how cousins became Hindoos too!!.
Where was whole Ummah of Canada!!
In canada no one get 15 years unless its first degree triple murder. One double murder guy got out in 10 years. A wife killer lawyer got out in 7 years. No way his aunt and uncle would have gone to jail for instigating other family!! BS BS BS!!Manslughter charge can cause imprisonment of 5 years and out in 3 years.
Only part I can belive is that his mom got out of abusive relationship.Even Muslimmahs get out of abusive relationships!!
Yes I have seen many so called secular Indian muslims becoming Islamists, wives & children all in burkha , once exposed to wahabi run mosque culture in canada. Only that part is believeble. |
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Phedippedes
Joined: 20 Mar 2004 Posts: 8092 Location: Not on FFI anymore
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 9:35 pm Post subject: |
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| This testimony sounds fake too...or otherwise 'spiced' up to such an extend that it is unbelievable. I suggest it be dumped in the garbage bin. |
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crazy canuck
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 9:37 pm Post subject: |
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| This testimony sounds fake too...or otherwise 'spiced' up to such an extend that it is unbelievable. I suggest it be dumped in the garbage bin. |
Yes this thread should be garbaged and locked up.
A muslim ispulling leg here. |
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Fathom

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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 9:50 pm Post subject: |
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| Phedippedes wrote: |
| This testimony sounds fake too...or otherwise 'spiced' up to such an extend that it is unbelievable. I suggest it be dumped in the garbage bin. |
Not necessarily.
In Canada when one is charged for a crime is it is often that the charge is added to extensively. Being found guilty of attempted murder is only one charge, for he would also have been charged with assault causing bodily harm (multiple times since the beatings were ongoing over many years), uttering death threats, and who knows what other charges would have applied.
It cannot be compared to a single murder charge because in most murder cases there was no other crimes committed by the killer towards the victim.
Also, if the father's brother-in-law and sister were instructing him to commit these crimes several times over the years they would also have had multiple charges. |
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crazy canuck
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 10:43 pm Post subject: |
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| Worse, once my aunt found out that my parents were using birth control so that my mother could continue with her career, the pressure became even more intense. |
Guys wake up. Does this testimony make any sense? Couple wanted no children at all , even after few years of marriage. Here this guy had a ssister who would have helped her sis in law to start new family. See how bad is thise Hindu career woman and her handpacked apostate husband!!
Now pressure increased to screw and low behold two chidren were born. These two ungrateful brorther and sister would not have been in this world if there was no Islam. They hated their uncle and aunt, though practically they brought him in this world!! . Uncle and aunt helped this border linne kaffirs to settle in Canada.
Still those two little 7 & 5 Kaffir brats turn against Islam , cause lots of problem and make everyone hIndu. Actually these two should be grateful to Islam . Instead they became Kaffir.Made whole family Kaffir. Guys cant you see the irony here, or am I really crazy?  |
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crazy canuck
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 10:49 pm Post subject: |
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| Phedippedes wrote: |
| This testimony sounds fake too...or otherwise 'spiced' up to such an extend that it is unbelievable. I suggest it be dumped in the garbage bin. |
Not necessarily.
In Canada when one is charged for a crime is it is often that the charge is added to extensively. Being found guilty of attempted murder is only one charge, for he would also have been charged with assault causing bodily harm (multiple times since the beatings were ongoing over many years), uttering death threats, and who knows what other charges would have applied.
It cannot be compared to a single murder charge because in most murder cases there was no other crimes committed by the killer towards the victim.
Also, if the father's brother-in-law and sister were instructing him to commit these crimes several times over the years they would also have had multiple charges. |
In real life even public prosecutor trys to consolidate charges and go for lesser charge which can stick. Overkill or excessive charges back fires,almost always set defendant free. Here the husband would have gladly pleaded for lesser charge of domestic violence, signed papers and out in 6 months.Condition: Stay away from ex wife, no contacts. Again cycle starts, and after few attempts wife can get killed if guy is dtermined. This time he will stay behind bar for not more than 10 years if he pleads guilty to manslaughter. Check canadian prisions, only well known guy like Colin Thacher and massmurdere Olson has seveed more than 20 years. Pig butcher Picton will be sentenced for real life term. |
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cheeto33

Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 3006 Location: Ireland
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Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 1:34 pm Post subject: |
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Does a charge of attempted murder not carry the same sentence as murder in Canada? _________________ .There’s no rape in islam only sex or adultery: a muslim can have sex with his wives or slaves without consent. With others it is adultery. Rape is from the perspective of women. No such thing in islam! |
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crazy canuck
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Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 3:59 pm Post subject: |
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| Does a charge of attempted murder not carry the same sentence as murder in Canada? |
In theory yes.That murder attempt has to be proved premeditated, which is often hard as victim survived.
When victim survives and not totally decapicitated, some deal can be worked out and guy will be happy camper in less than 10 years. |
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