Is being too emotional really a flaw for woman?

[sylla7801]

The guy has a point to an extent because women are more likely to act out on their emotions, and everyone knows that from daily life. Men in stresful, emotional situations will usually try to have an excuse before doing something whereas the female will be more likely go headlong. For example in a fight between two guys, all you see for a long time is the guys squaring up in a stance talking sh!t to each other. This is because they know that if someone swings first, then they can go and say it was self defense. That happens until someone just doesn't care and starts fighting. In a female fight, the women don't just get all close to each other talking sh!t,but they explode at each other. Another example, when you see a guy and a woman having an arguement, it is usually the female that is dictating the conversation and yelling at the guy the whole time, while the guy is just trying to back away most of the time. this isn't to say that women are stupid compared to men, cause in most situations they think stuff through, but when they get under pressure, they're more likely to fall
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[MsWesterner]

what NONSENSE sylla....again your brainwashing controls you "level of intellect" which is not very high at all.

Why do you think islam and muslim males PROVABLY FEAR women....it's because they know that woman have such strengths and integrity, so by evil teachings and conditioning they "force" women to be in a position where they are controlled (by fear), and actually teach males that it is their right to beat, harm, and oppress them.

this is islam....unbelievable.

The world of your ummah "fears" two small women.....Hirsi Ali and Wafa Sultan.....and as Hirsi says, (in her tireless effort to improve the pain and misery of your muslim women) that no male has been able to call her a liar, and not one has been able to refute her....BUT THEY WANT HER DEAD and they dont want any improvements for these harmed lives....look at what the religious leaders insisted on in Pakistan, and how very telling that was!!!

So tell me sylla, do muslim males have any real strengths at all....I say they are weak little wimps, devoid of conscience, and without balls.

Any human being would believes that because of a pedophile and his hoax and egotistical commands you males have had the right to cause so much harm to so many millions of innocent victims PROVES what weak gutless little boys you are!!!

So come on sylla....tell us more about your robotic preprogrammed thoughts and why dont you also add "but islam respects and reveres women lol"!!!

[katlike]

sylla7801:

[sylla7801]

1.I'm talking about the fact that if you fight, you are going to get in trouble, so males will usually try to make it look like they were just defending themselves s othey won't get in trouble, and alot of times this method kepps them from fighting. Females don't give a crap when they're fighting, they go ballistic.

2.You mean the JEws picking on the Palestinians and the Palestinians fighting back, and the Jews trying to make themselves look noble.

3.No it's smarter to at first let everyone to see that the other guy swung first, so when they're asked they can say that the guy was defending himself.

4.No I'm saying men will try and look at the right time to engage where they can maximize damage on their opponent while minimizing trouble for themselves
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[katlike]

1. You mean they are not really fighters by nature, just liars?
2. Nope, I am referring to what happened in Mecca 1400 years ago. Funny you should bring up the Jews though, seems you agree they have been victimized for quite some time.
3. See number 1 and listen to Kenny Roger's "Coward of the County" for some easy entertainment.
4. Like when they beat their wives behind closed doors?
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[rand]

A problem is that men and women are supposed to be segregated in Islam. Then men are supposed to be leaders. So men are supposed to decide on women's rights without really understanding the female perspective. Similarly, muslims are supposed to stay away from non-muslims and just have muslim leaders. But when muslim leaders relate to non-muslim's lives, they don't understand them.
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One of the challenges of developing a great society is to get quality leaders. Presumably, such a question could be answered by an all-knowing allah. Being muslim and male does not automatically qualify one to be a quality leader.
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If we want to discuss a person that has emotional needs, maybe we should start with the need of the quranic author to be obeyed, and his personal self-esteem and his need to have people believe in him.

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[Skywalker]

I think men can be just as emotional as women in some circumstances, maybe even more so. If I were to venture a guess as to why most leaders throughout history have been men, I'd say it's because men have a different kind of logic than women. I notice this a lot when I talk to women. It's like this feeling that logic seems secondary to emotion for them. It's hard to describe.

I think we all agree that most women are really bad drivers, and I think this might have something to do with this subject. Maybe they were just programmed to be better than men at some things and worse than men at other things. Yesterday alone I had a few close calls because of women drivers.

I personally don't think that all women are incapable of being leaders, in fact, I think that if one has the qualifications to be a good one, why not make her one? But I think that men on average are better suited for the roles of leaders than women.

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[Orenda]

[katlike]

Orenda,
I am glad you revived this thread. I reread through it with a fresh set of eyes.


Couple of things Skywalker,

[cherryblossom]

Hi Kat. I dont really believe women are more emotional than men, they experience different levels of emotion. Some men cry more than some women and vice a versa. Some women can be emotionless than some men.

But to label all women as being too emotional is wrong. It is a ploy by Muslims to have control over women, its an excuse. It is ingrained in Islam that women are inferior so you wouldnt expect anything less from Muslims.
And yet without women there would be no life, and they have soo little respect for women.

If men are soo perfect at making decisions then why does society have soo many problems. The majority of decision makers are men after all.
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[MsWesterner]

and cherry blossom....emotions are not just the healthy release of crying, but also love, hate, anger - so women dont have the monopoly on emotions.

In another country where I lived we had a politician mocking a woman because she "wept" about a really sad situation occurring, yet he had no problems with a fellow poli who "punched a hole in the wall in anger".

This islamic junk about emotions is nothing more than another lie, a ploy to continue their degradation and oppression of women, and to control - nothing more!!! And those with some intellect know it.

[sylla7801]

good ole times
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