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Spirituality -A garden of wisdom. Jiddu Krishnamurti
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 3:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you do not behave as I see fit, I will punish myself by giving myself a bad feeling. I always loved that one.
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 6:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

DeMello was a Jesuit. It's a wonder the Church didn't excommunicate him, as well as a hope.
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 7:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I posted this link before, don't know if you read it, but it says it all
http://users.bigpond.net.au/manisall/silence.html

This was probably one of his most offensive chapters, but, as that one guy said, what he says is so elliptical that it is hard to say that he is going against Christianity and often, when one says so, they might be missing his larger overlying points. He is very very easily misundertsood because he puts things in such simple language that one often misses the deeper elements of it. I would call him "deceptively simple". For instance, there was the example that fire and water need an intermediary (a pot) for the water to boil. One might say "yeah, so what?" Well, Jesus was claimed as exactly that. An intermediary between us and the Father and people's main complaint about Christianity is that they don't need an intermediary. DeMello commented that he remained in the church because the mother church was his home. However, the guy was also a psychologist which is where he gets some of his insights from about human nature and behavior. I didn't even know he was a priest at first because his words were so deep and yet so honest in that he didn't shy away from anything or sugar coat it. In fact, I didn't even know he was an Indian because he sounded so western. But none of this matters because it doesn't change what he said one iota. And, as he clearly said, if you get something from what he says, you did it, not him, and if you are damaged by what he says, you did it, not him and then he quotes the Arab phrase "the nature of the rain is the same but it makes flowers grow in the gardens and thorns grow in the marsh".
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 7:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Here's where he tells you that he knows you are probably going to misinterpret him

DeMello wrote:

Are you listening, as most people do, in order to confirm what you already think? Observe your reactions as I talk. Frequently you'll be startled or shocked or scandalized or irritated or annoyed or frustrated. Or you'll be saying, "Great! "

But are you listening for what will confirm what you already think? Or are you listening in order to discover something new? That is important. It is difficult for sleeping people. Jesus proclaimed the good news, yet he was rejected. Not because it was good, but because it was new. We hate the new. We hate it! And the sooner we face up to that fact, the better. We don't want new things, particularly when they're disturbing, particularly when they involve change. Most particularly if it involves saying, "I was wrong." I remember meeting an eighty-seven-year-old Jesuit in Spain; he'd been my professor and rector in India thirty or forty years ago. And he attended a workshop like this. "I should have heard you speak sixty years ago," he said. "You know something. I've been wrong all my life." God, to listen to that! It's like looking at one of the wonders of the world. That, ladies and gentlemen, is faith! An openness to the truth, no matter what the consequences, no matter where it leads you and when you don't even know where it's going to lead you. That's faith. Not belief, but faith. Your beliefs give you a lot of security, but faith is insecurity. You don't know. You're ready to follow and you're open, you're wide open! You're ready to listen. And, mind you, being open does not mean being gullible, it doesn't mean swallowing whatever the speaker is saying. Oh no. You've got to challenge everything I'm saying. But challenge it from an attitude of openness, not from an attitude of stubbornness. And challenge it all. Recall those lovely words of Buddha when he said, "Monks and scholars must not accept my words out of respect, but must analyze them the way a goldsmith analyzes-gold by cutting, scraping, rubbing, melting."

When you do that, you're listening. You've taken another major step toward awakening. The first step, as I said, was a readiness to admit that you don't want to wake up, that you don't want to be happy. There are all kinds of resistances to that within you. The second step is a readiness to understand, to listen, to challenge your whole belief system. Not just your religious beliefs, your political beliefs, your social beliefs, your psychological beliefs, but all of them. A readiness to reappraise them all, in the Buddha's metaphor. And I'll give you plenty of opportunity to do that here.


Every body always has their own angle that they listen from and this is a tendency that he was trying to get rid of. At one point, to display this fact he uses the old joke of an agriculturalist who addresses an audience and says that aged horse manure is the best for growing flowers and the little girl who raises her hand and says yes we know that, but can you tell us optimally how old the horse should be?
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 8:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Krishnamurti, Ojaj 1944, talk 3.
Conformity leads to mediocrity. To be different from the group or to resist environment is not easy and is often risky as long as we worship success. The urge to be successful, which is the pursuit of reward whether in the material or in the so-called spiritual sphere, the search for inward or outward security, the desire for comfort -this whole process smothers discontent, puts an end to spontaneity and breeds fear; and fear blocks the intelligent understanding of life.
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 8:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

To meditate, from the latin -1495- 'meditari' meaning to exerce oneself.


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 8:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks Cat. But aren't you still admiring these people to an extent? Believe it or not, I do not really admire DeMello nor Krishnamurti nor do I consider them to be any sort of prophet. I only quote DeMello because he's better at putting it into words than I am. He himself tells you flat out not to follow him, which is when I realized the integrity that this guy had. Same thing with Krishnamurti disbanding the Order of the Star. These are people of integrity.

DeMello wrote:

Somebody came up to me with a question. What do you think the question was? He asked me, "Are you enlightened?" What do you think my answer was? What does it matter!

You want a better answer? My answer would be: "How would I know? How would you know? What does it matter?" You know something? If you want anything too badly, you're in big trouble. You know something else? If I were enlightened and you listened to me because I was enlightened, then you're in big trouble. Are you ready to be brainwashed by someone who's enlightened? You can be brainwashed by anybody, you know. What does it matter whether someone's enlightened or not? But see, we want to lean on someone, don't we? We want to lean on anybody we think has arrived. We love to hear that people have arrived. It gives us hope, doesn't it? What do you want to hope for? Isn't that another form of desire?

You want to hope for something better than what you have right now, don't you? Otherwise you wouldn't be hoping. But then, you forget that you have it all right now anyway, and you don't know it. Why not concentrate on the now instead of hoping for better times in the future? Why not understand the now instead of forgetting it and hoping for the future? Isn't the future just another trap?

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 8:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Here's another one you might like

DeMello wrote:

To me, selfishness seems to come out of an instinct for self-preservation, which is our deepest and first instinct. How can we opt for selflessness? It would be almost like opting for non-being. To me, it would seem to be the same thing as non-being. Whatever it is, I'm saying: Stop feeling bad about being selfish; we're all the same. Someone once had a terribly beautiful thing to say about Jesus. This person wasn't even Christian. He said, "The lovely thing about Jesus was that he was so at home with sinners, because he understood that he wasn't one bit better than they were." We differ from others -- from criminals, for example -- only in what we do or don't do, NOT IN WHAT WE ARE. The only difference between Jesus and those others was that he was awake and they weren't. Look at people who win the lottery. Do they say, "I'm so proud to accept this prize, not for myself, but for my nation and my society." Does anybody talk like that when they win the lottery? No. Because they were LUCKY, LUCKY. So they won the lottery, first prize. Anything to be proud of in that?

In the same way, if you achieved enlightenment, you would do so in the interest of self and you would be lucky. Do you want to glory in that? What's there to glory about? Can't you see how utterly stupid it is to be vain about your good deeds? The Pharisee wasn't an evil man, he was a stupid man. He was stupid, not evil. He didn't stop to think. Someone once said, "I dare not stop to think, because if I did, I wouldn't know how to get started again."

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 22, 2005 9:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi...I_A_T, you asked: ''Aren't you still admiring those persons to an extent?''
Yes, but only in the childish sense of marveling...

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One passage in what DeMello wrote, recently struck me. It is about the differenciation he makes between ''Faith'' and ''belief'', which I hold to be near synonymous. It's not so, according to his views:

''Jesus proclaimed the good news, yet he was rejected. Not because it was good, but because it was new. (...) We don't want new things, particularly if it involves saying ''I was wrong''. (...) God , to listen to that! it's like looking at one of the wonders of the world. That, ladies and gentlemen, is faith! An openness to the truth, no matter what the consequences, no matter where it leads you and when you don't even know where it's going to lead you. That's faith. Not belief, but faith. Your beliefs give you a lot of security, but faith is insecurity. You don't know.''

From now on, at least, I shall be more AWARE of the difference and stop using Belief and Faith as synonymous.It's like faith in spirituality but absolutly no belief in it. Understood, Mr DeMello.
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 9:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Core of the Teachings
Jiddu Krishnamurti
The following statement was written by Krishnamurti himself on October 21, 1980 in which he summarizes the teachings. It may be copied and used provided this is done in its entirety. No editing or change of any kind is permitted. No extracts may be used.
"The core of Krishnamurti's teaching is contained in the statement he made in 1929 when he said: 'Truth is a pathless land'. Man cannot come to it through any organization, through any creed, through any dogma, priest or ritual, not through any philosophic knowledge or psychological technique. He has to find it through the mirror of relationship, through the understanding of the contents of his own mind, through observation and not through intellectual analysis or introspective dissection. Man has built in himself images as a fence of security - religious, political, personal. These manifest as symbols, ideas, beliefs. The burden of these images dominates man's thinking, his relationships and his daily life. These images are the causes of our problems for they divide man from man. His perception of life is shaped by the concepts already established in his mind. The content of his consciousness is his entire existence. This content is common to all humanity. The individuality is the name, the form and superficial culture he acquires from tradition and environment. The uniqueness of man does not lie in the superficial but in complete freedom from the content of his consciousness, which is common to all mankind. So he is not an individual.
Freedom is not a reaction; freedom is not a choice. It is man's pretence that because he has choice he is free. Freedom is pure observation without direction, without fear of punishment and reward. Freedom is without motive; freedom is not at the end of the evolution of man but lies in the first step of his existence. In observation one begins to discover the lack of freedom. Freedom is found in the choiceless awareness of our daily existence and activity. Thought is time. Thought is born of experience and knowledge which are inseparable from time and the past. Time is the psychological enemy of man. Our action is based on knowledge and therefore time, so man is always a slave to the past. Thought is ever-limited and so we live in constant conflict and struggle. There is no psychological evolution.
When man becomes aware of the movement of his own thoughts he will see the division between the thinker and thought, the observer and the observed, the experiencer and the experience. He will discover that this division is an illusion. Then only is there pure observation which is insight without any shadow of the past or of time. This timeless insight brings about a deep radical mutation in the mind.
Total negation is the essence of the positive. When there is negation of all those things that thought has brought about psychologically, only then is there love, which is compassion and intelligence."
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 4:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

plata moya wrote:
The Core of the Teachings
Jiddu Krishnamurti

Freedom is not a reaction; freedom is not a choice. It is man's pretence that because he has choice he is free. Freedom is pure observation without direction, without fear of punishment and reward. Freedom is without motive; freedom is not at the end of the evolution of man but lies in the first step of his existence. In observation one begins to discover the lack of freedom. Freedom is found in the choiceless awareness of our daily existence and activity.


People often look at the fruit of knowledge in the GOE as the beginning of human freedom and choice, but it was actually the end of that and the beginning of slavery. We are slaves to pleasing ourselves. Although we often fail in this endevour, it is still what we always try to do. We cannot make choices that are not designed to please us in some way or lessen our burden. So here, we think we have all of this freedom of choice, when in fact, we have none. There is only one kind of choice that we can make, and that is the choice of self interest.
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 4:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Cat wrote:
One passage in what DeMello wrote, recently struck me. It is about the differenciation he makes between ''Faith'' and ''Belief'', which I hold to be near synonymous. It's not so, according to his views:

''Jesus proclaimed the good news, yet he was rejected. Not because it was good, but because it was new. (...) We don't want new things, particularly when they are disturbing, when they involve change. Most particularly if it involves saying ''I was wrong''. (...) God, to listen to that! it's like looking at one of the wonders of the world. That, ladies and gentlemen, is faith! An openness to the truth, no matter what the consequences, no matter where it leads you and when you don't even know where it's going to lead you. That's faith. Not belief, but faith. Your beliefs give you a lot of security, but faith is insecurity. You don't know.''

From now on, at least, I shall be more AWARE of the difference and stop using Belief and Faith as synonymous. It's like I have faith in spirituality but absolutly no belief in it...Understood, Mr DeMello, thanks.


Ahhh, yes. This is correct. This is what he is really saying. To a small extent, I'm not sure if it was a good idea for me to post DeMello quotes. It's so easy to think that one understands him because his words are so simple. From my experience, I think one would have to read his whole "Awareness" book before one can really see where he is coming from. I don't know if I ever would have truly understood what he is pointing at by simply reading select, non contiguous chapters out of order. But if you can, than more power to you. I think this stuff can actually confuse someone more than enlighten them if they are read out of context and out of order. There are necessary foundations he builds first, that truely allows one to see what he is saying. If those are missing, he can actually be quite misleading, but even more dangerously, he can give you the impression that you DO understand what he's saying. I'm not saying you don't and it's good you found the difference between faith and belief and you got this one right. I just don't know how I would really get it if I didn't read what he was saying in the proper order. If you can, then great !!! There are a number of eye popping notions that you still haven't run into yet although maybe you may have run into similar ones from other authors.
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 28, 2005 9:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

NOVEMBER'S THOUGHTS (2).

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 8:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

November's thoughts (3).
ON DEATH. Krishnamurti.
--To find out what living is as well as to find out what dying is, one must come into contact with death; that is, one must end every day everything one has known. One must end the image that one has built up upon oneself, about one's family, about one's relationship, the image that one has built through pleasure, through one's relationship to society, everything. That is what is going to take place when death occurs. (...)

Do you know what it means to come into contact with death, to die without argument? Because death, when it comes, does not argue with you. To meet it, you have to die every day to everything: to your agony, to your loneliness, to the relationship you cling to; you have to die to your thought, to die to your habit, to die to your wife so that you can look at your wife anew; (...)

But you cannot meet death if you don't die every day. It is only when you die that there is love. A mind frightened has no love -it has habits, it has sympathy, it can force itself to be kind and superficially considerate. But fear breeds sorrow, and sorrow is time as thought. (...) So one has to live every day dying -dying because you are then in contact with life. Surely, in ending there is renewal, is there not? It's only in death that a new thing comes into being. (...)

Reality is the unknown. Death is also the unknown. But to call death beautiful, to say how marvelous it is because we shall continue in the hereafter and all that nonsense, has no reality. What has reality is seeing death as it is -an ending; an ending in which there is renewal, a rebirth, not a continuity. For that which continues decays; and that which has the power to renew itself is eternal.
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