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Dawn*



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PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2004 5:25 am    Post subject: thinkin' of throwing in the towel too Reply with quote

Hi everyone,

I joined this forum today and am pretty excited about reading through the threads. I've been searching for a discussion board like this one for some time now. So kudos to whoever initiated this! I didn't see any sub categories for newbies, so i'll briefly introduce myself here. I'm an Iranian almost ex-Muslim. I've been contemplating abandoning Islam/religion for about a year. As most of you probably know due to your own personal experiences, it's a difficult and strenuous process. I noticed the youth forum isn't too active, but i'm actually interested in getting to know other youth - I'm 18 - who can relate to my situation.
Anyway, I'm looking forward to meeting you all.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2004 6:14 am    Post subject: Re: thinkin' of throwing in the towel too Reply with quote

Dawn* wrote:
Hi everyone,

I joined this forum today and am pretty excited about reading through the threads. I've been searching for a discussion board like this one for some time now. So kudos to whoever initiated this! I didn't see any sub categories for newbies, so i'll briefly introduce myself here. I'm an Iranian almost ex-Muslim. I've been contemplating abandoning Islam/religion for about a year. As most of you probably know due to your own personal experiences, it's a difficult and strenuous process. I noticed the youth forum isn't too active, but i'm actually interested in getting to know other youth - I'm 18 - who can relate to my situation.
Anyway, I'm looking forward to meeting you all.



Hello Dawn. What is currently giving you doubts about Islam? Is it the ongoing situation in Iran, or is it with Islam itself.
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2004 7:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hello and welcome to you Dawn.

Regarding other youth, you may be able to invite other youths here to use this forum as a discussion safe-haven and a source of information.

In any event stick around and you will see that Islam is based on lies and deceit and is an evil system of oppression and control.

Take care and best wishes.
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Ali Sina



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PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2004 7:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi Dawn*

Khoshamadi

Nice to have you here. I am also a youth, only a few years older than you. I won’t say how many. But hey, who’s counting!

Yep you are right, leaving Islam seem to be daunting because non one of us saw anyone actually doing it and many of us grew up thinking this is something that can’t be done. However there are many people who are leaving Islam. The problem is that they are afraid of telling others for the fear of being ostracized. Now with the advent of the Internet, that task seems to be easy and we are finding each other and sharing our experiences.

There are many benefits in leaving Islam. The first and foremost is that we suddenly realize we are humans, just like other human beings and we are not just brothers to a certain group but to all mankind. I tell you only this feeling is exhilarating and empowering.

Go and invite other youths like yourself and myself and see if you can revive the youth forum. May be you can be in charge of that forum and run it your way.

Take care and I look forward reading more your thoughts.
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2004 8:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

hey Dawn*

First I wanna say congratulations on taking the first and most important step: overcoming your fears and rejecting the social programming that controlled your mind and billions of other minds through out all these centuries.

I am only 4 years older than you, and I have joined this forum just couple days ago. Read Mr. Ali Sina's articles and read the other threads. they are a very valuable resource and they will help a lot seeing things more clearly. They are very enlightning and in most cases, funny and amusing as well. Also keep in touch with us because you will find a lot of support and help here. Your society and what you learned when you were younger will still try to weaken you and make you think twice about what you're doing, but with the help of this forum things will go smoother.

Another advice for all of you guys, in case you haven't seen it (and I doubt that you haven't) then please rent the movie "The Matrix" and watch. You will know what I mean after you've seen it

regards...
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2004 8:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

hehe well done you 2

i was never a muslim but bought into the lies about it for a very long time.
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2004 12:45 pm    Post subject: Re: thinkin' of throwing in the towel too Reply with quote

Dawn* wrote:
Hi everyone,

I joined this forum today and am pretty excited about reading through the threads. I've been searching for a discussion board like this one for some time now. So kudos to whoever initiated this! I didn't see any sub categories for newbies, so i'll briefly introduce myself here. I'm an Iranian almost ex-Muslim. I've been contemplating abandoning Islam/religion for about a year. As most of you probably know due to your own personal experiences, it's a difficult and strenuous process. I noticed the youth forum isn't too active, but i'm actually interested in getting to know other youth - I'm 18 - who can relate to my situation.
Anyway, I'm looking forward to meeting you all.


I know plenty of Iranians who don't consider themselves Muslim, except for purposes of IRI paperwork. If you can go to a college where there are Iranians, you will find plenty of apostates. You will find Iranian girls dating non-Mohammedan boys. The Persian Clubs have nothing to do with religion and like to put on Now Ruz shows and dance parties.
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2004 4:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

dragonpoo wrote:
hehe well done you 2

i was never a muslim but bought into the lies about it for a very long time.


Welcome Dawn*! Like Dragonpoo, I was and never will be a Muslim. I live in a muslim majority country, which is "hell on earth" where our kind are badly treated, despised, deprived and treated as the lowest caste. I have lived and endured this "hell" long enough to see the hypocrisy and from this site I have come to know that they are practising what their book preached!
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2004 9:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi guys,

Thank you to all for the replies. In response to those who asked - my doubts don't arise from any one particular aspect of Islam, but rather the system of the faith in general. Ok here's some of my background info:
I come from a semi-religious family. My grandfather was actually an ayatollah in Iran. Luckily, my father is a freethinker, yet my mother is a typical confused and brainwashed Muslim. In spite of the doubts and questions which often clouded my mind, I too was a devout believer. Three years ago I would swear on my life that no religion could surpass Islam in completeness and greatness, and that I'd never give in to this world like those "cursed infidels" and "lost souls". I'm still a little hesistant about deconverting, mainly because i've been so accustomed to the religious thinking and lifestyle.

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What is currently giving you doubts about Islam? Is it the ongoing situation in Iran, or is it with Islam itself.


As an Iranian, I don't think its possible to critique Islam in complete isolation from the present situation in Iran. That's just one manifestation of the imperfection of Islam itself. Islam is always defined as a complete, flawless way of life. Well, I certainly don't see it in that way. I cannot accept the concept of a tyrant God who threatens his creatures to bow down or suffer for eternity. It's actually really silly the way Muslims reason out the purpose of creation. According to them, my soul/essence, supposedly made a pact to submit to God before I was officially created. I wonder why I can't remember this. And the list goes on. . .

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The first and foremost is that we suddenly realize we are humans, just like other human beings and we are not just brothers to a certain group but to all mankind. I tell you only this feeling is exhilarating and empowering.


I completely agree with you. It is an extraordinarily liberating feeling.
I'm so tired of the intolerance which Islam encourages towards anyone who is even slightly different.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 21, 2004 12:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think you're already far past the point of deconverting.

You can aparently think for yourself.

I think this makes you a non-muslim by default.

You don't have to be rapidly "anti" the religion you came from...
I don't think people want or even expect that.

Keep us informed of new events, ok?

good luck.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 21, 2004 12:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dawn* wrote:
My grandfather was actually an ayatollah in Iran. Luckily, my father is a freethinker,

This sounds familiar. I knew an Iranian man whose father was an educated mollah. (Yes, everyone, there is a difference!) The man himself was atheist.
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 21, 2004 1:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hello and Welcome to FFI Dawn*

Im trueblue. An ex-muslim and now an avowed athiest. Nice to know you are from Iran. Well, I dont have any Iran connection but I have fallen in love with that country because Iran is my mentor Ali's birthplace. It looks like there are quite a few freethinkers in Iran. What still baffles me how such a nation home to some of the finest minds fall victim to menacing Islam. It seems the older generation nutcases have to be completely toppled and the brunt of post-revolution lifestyle reversed for the nations thinkers to come out in the open. Im sure there will be many more like you struggling to come out in the open, but cannot do so at present.

Anyway, hoping to see you around.
Cheers!
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 21, 2004 5:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am youth too. I'm 22. I was 19 when I converted and left Islam.
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 22, 2004 5:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Me too. But I hate the youth forum. And I prefer the company older, mature people.
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 22, 2004 6:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Im trueblue. An ex-muslim and now an avowed athiest. Nice to know you are from Iran. Well, I dont have any Iran connection but I have fallen in love with that country because Iran is my mentor Ali's birthplace. It looks like there are quite a few freethinkers in Iran. What still baffles me how such a nation home to some of the finest minds fall victim to menacing Islam. It seems the older generation nutcases have to be completely toppled and the brunt of post-revolution lifestyle reversed for the nations thinkers to come out in the open. Im sure there will be many more like you struggling to come out in the open, but cannot do so at present.


I'm glad you like Iran, it is indeed a beautiful place. I take it the mentor you're referring to is not Ali Khamenei? No, i'm just kidding. Iran is a time bomb just waiting to break away from backwardness and fascism. If the will-power and determination of Iranians themselves remains strong, then the turbanheads won't last much longer.
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