Western Woman: Wanna be Muslim’s Wife? Here’s Your Crash-Course!
A Muslim man is asking for your hand in marriage, and you have [madly] fallen in love with his bronze Middle Eastern complexion. He seems to be intelligent, romantic, handsome, kind of rich, well-educated and well-mannered, too! He shows deep love and affections towards you. Showers his unlimited attentions, caresses; he really really cares for you and your heart flutters when you hear his voice or when you are near him…. You are attracted to him like to none other!
So, what more can a woman ask for in life? This most eligible bachelor is also a Muslim!
“There will be no problems”, he will say, adding: “you can keep your religion, I will keep mine”. It is indeed true that Islam does allow a Muslim man to marry a Christian woman [infidel]. But is it true that there will be no problems in such a marriage?
To answer this question, a Western [infidel] woman has to examine what it is like to be a Muslim’s wife?
Below is a ‘Crash Course’ on being a Muslim wife
. All Western infidel women must familiarize with it before marrying a Muslim.
Muslim Wife’s Status!
* Islam teaches that Muslim men are superior to women. (Surah 2:228)
* Islam teaches that women have half the rights of men:
- In inheritance (Surah 4:11)
- In court witness (Surah 2:282)
* Islam considers a wife to be a personal possession of the husband.
“Fair in the eyes of men is the love of things they covet: women and sons, heaped-up hoards of gold and silver; horses…” (Surah 3:14)
* Islam commands women to veil themselves always when they are outside their homes:
“…says to the believing women… that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty” (Surah 24:31)
* Mohammed teaches that women are lacking in brain and religion:
“I have not seen any one more deficient in intelligence and religion than women”. (Al-Bukhari 2:541)
* Mohammed teaches that women are a bad omen:
“Bad omen is in the women, the house and the horse”. (Al Bukhari 7:30)
* Mohammed taught that women are harmful to men.
“After me I have not left any affliction more harmful to men than women”. (Al Bukhari 7:33)
Status of Your Muslim Marriage!
* Islam allows polygamy for men:
“A man may marry up to four wives at one time.” Marry women of your choice, two, or three, or four…” (Surah 4:3)
* A Muslim man can divorce his wife by oral announcements; the wife has no right to divorce at all.
“Divorce is permissible twice”. (Surah 2:229)
* When a Muslim husband has pronounced divorce three times on his wife, she then may not lawfully remarry her husband until she has married another man, properly consummated the marriage and has been divorced by her new husband.
“…So if a husband divorces his wife he cannot after that, remarry her until after she has married another husband, and he has divorced her”. (Surah 2:230)
* Islam teaches that a wife is subject to punishment by her husband; beating a wife or abstaining from sexual relations with her is legally allowed under Islamic Sharia.
“As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them, refuse to share their beds, beat them…” (Surah 4:34)
Your Muslim Sex Life Status!
Islam considers wives as a sex-object.
“Your wives are as a tithe [a field to be ploughed] unto you, so approach your tithe when or how ye will”. (Surah 2:223)
Status of Your Muslim Children!
Your children have to be raised according to their Muslim father’s religion, i.e. Islam. If he divorces you, he gets complete custody of all your children; you wouldn’t be able to see your children ever again.
The Islamic Sharia Law states that in mixed marriages, “the children will follow the better of the two religions of their parents”, which in your case is considered as Islam! The Koran explicitly states that Islam is the only true religion:
“…the true religion before Allah is Islam” (Surah 3:19).
Non Muslims [infidels] can not act as protectors to Muslims.
“O ye who believe; take not for friends [protectors] unbelievers rather than believers”. (Surah 4:144)
Your Future Status as a Muslim Wife!
Should you survive your Muslim husband, and his wealth is in an Islamic country, the Islamic Sharia Law will apply henceforth. The wife, who has not converted to Islam, gets nothing; the wife, who has converted to Islam, gets very little. According to the Koran, a Muslim wife does not inherit all her husband’s wealth. If the husband dies and he leaves no children, she gets a fourth of his wealth, his parents, brothers, uncles etc. will get the rest. If the deceased husband leaves any children behind, the wife gets an eighth part of the property; the children get the rest. The male child gets double the portion of the female.
“In what ye leave, their [wives] share is a fourth if you leave no child; but if you leave a child, they [wives] get an eighth; after payment of legacies and debts.” (Surah 4:12)
Before You Say “I DO” to a Muslim!
Before you commit yourself to marry a Muslim, it is a good idea to examine their motives behind marrying you. While your motive may be true love, his motive could be just to obtain a “Green Card”.
They say, “Love is blind”. But I, however, hope that this message will serve as an eye-opener for you.
You may say that your husband-to-be is a non-practicing Muslim. But let’s not forget that, Islam is more than a religion; it includes complete legal codes for Muslims and non-Muslims to follow in an Islamic State! In case of a dispute between you and him, all he needs to do [to get the upper hand over] is for you is to travel to an Islamic country.
If you are still in doubt, may I suggest that you see the movie “Not without my daughter”, which is based on a true life-story of an American woman, who married a Muslim man. Other similar movies are: “Princess”, “Dreams of Trespass”, and “The Stoning of Soraya M”.
This may be a life-saving experience. The lives you will save are your own, your families and those of your future children.
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Great aritcle for redirecting to the successful pop-singer Sarah Conner.
http://www.sarah-connor.com/de/contact.html
Because her sister of the Sarah Conner who converted for love to Mesut Oezil to Islam.
http://www.spiegel.de/panorama/leute/0,1518,70251…
(player of national soccer team of Germany)
“…So if a husband divorces his wife he cannot after that, remarry her until after she has married another husband, and he has divorced her”. (Surah 2:230)
— This is disgusting and illogical. What if a Muslim woman, after divorce, wants to get back to her former husband and does not want to marry someone else (temporarily) in order to get back to her former husband? According to Allah's logic she has to marry someone and spend time with him and divorce him. And then she can get back to her former husband! Allah is so cruel…
i agree..but wow this article has been an eye opener for me as i was dating a man from saudi arabia….but i rememberd about that girl in the movien adn…it made me think twice as what i was thinking…but you know iam CATHOLIC and CATHOLIC i want to die!!!
if the husband divorces her 3 times. it is like that to make people think about what they are doing in divorcing there wife! for example the husband cant just divorce for reasons to simply scare the wife because if its done 3 times he will not be allowed to have the hand in another marriage with her! simply stopping people from divorcing for stupid reason! it wasn't intended to be for any other purpose! this also will scare the husband to for if the wife is divorced (lost) 3 times she might find a good Muslim man and be with him forever leaving the former husband in misery for his actions.
I will marry my Muslim fiancé because all that you have said inst of truth to a good Muslim your simply misunderstood.
Only in Islam there is such stupidity and inequallity, no wonder most muslims are dumb and illogical in their thinking on life issues.
sorry Dear … you have not to say that .. may be you have to read about IsLam .. not here of course ''may be that man is formed especially to attack Islam''.. that a religion man .. can you get work your mind … there is a lot to know about iSlam as we know about CHresianism and Jews…. dont be stuped and consommator's of Ideas of others.
bounoua.med.abdelilah@gmail.com
There has so much been left out :-
How about brest feeding grown men who visit her house refularly.
You do not mention of woman's readyness with shaven privates.
You do not mention that some muzzies prefer circumcised vaginas.
You also forget that the man she married to can sell his daughter of 9 years of age to an old pedophile of 70.
The children that she gives birth to will be brainwashed in MADrassas from a tender age of three.
You also forget that the daughters that she gives birth to would be married off to first cousins.
etc.etc.etc.
"why what’s wrong in allah’s thinking?"
Allah allows pedophilia like Muhammad 54 had sex with the young girl Aisha 8
65:4 is the most ugliest & filthiest sura of the shit Quran:
to this sure one can have sex with an 1-day-young infant girl
fatwa No. 12708 “… and for those who have no courses [(i.e. they are still immature) their ‘Iddah (prescribed period) is three months likewise”
[al-Talaaq 65:4] …”
http://newstime.co.nz/muhammad-aisha-and-quran-65…
Despite so many strong arguments and proofs against the evils of islam and despite over a dozen of websites like FFI, Jihadwatch, islamwatch, etc existing and working hard for over a decade to educate people against the islamic menace, it is extremely sad and shocking that islam is becoming stronger and stronger every day all over the world. This is only because 99.99% of educated non-muslims support and respect muslims (hence islam) too much either due to fear, or foolishness or some vested interest of immediate benefits (political, financial or cheap popularity).
Islam has gained too much political as well as economical power, privileges, reservations and concessions in the big countries like India, US, UK and many other European countries. China is a devout supporter and helper of Pakistan, Iran, etc. Russia, despite being a terrible victim of islamic terrorism, keeps favoring Iran and other muslim countries. France and other European countries have given too many concessions and privileges to muslims. US, UK, India, and many European countries are likely to convert to countries of islamic dominance and rule within 10-20 years.
Most educated (99.99%) non-muslims ignore the misdeeds of muslims. They are complacent to see that there is no terrorist bomb-blast by muslims in their city or country. They are least bothered on muslims becoming politically more and more strong so as to overpower the native Hindu, Sikhs, Christians, etc and take control of administration in their countries as has happened in USA. Muslims are so successful and most Americans are so fools that they have rewarded muslims for 9/11 by making a muslim Obama their president followed by a non-stop series of concessions and privileges to muslims to spread islam in USA.
Irony is that non-muslims don't want to worry about islamic dominance.They appear even ready to undergo subjugation under an islamic rule. They appear even ready to convert to islam as they see nothing bad in islam even if you explain them all the evils of islam with present as well as historical proofs and documentation. In a rarest of the rare case, a muslim lady marries a non-muslims, but several thousands of Hindus, Christians, Buddhists etc marry muslims every year (and convert) with the consent of their family members who happily allow such self-destructing marriages. Such parents don't listen at all even if you give them to read an article like this one "Western Woman: Wanna be Muslim’s Wife?" or so many articles written by Dr Radhasyam Brahmchari against marrying a muslim guy. Majority of non-muslims are not bothered at all on such maarriages of non-muslim ladies to muslims and their conversion to islam.
It is utter nonsense to say that "hate islam but love muslims" –it is self contradictory. If you give equal rights and respect to muslims then they would occupy influential military, political, administrative and economical power in your country and gradually convert your country to Darul-islam. So, no muslim is good at all even if he or she is personally well behaved, well-educated, sweet-spoken, helping, cooperating, etc. Due to being a muslim, he or she is emotionally attached to all the muslims of this world and has huge respect for his evil religion. So, he/she would eventually do whatever is required to do for islamic dominance as per the teachings of the wicked muhammad and other muslim devils.
So, all muslims are equally dangerous, whether he/she is a terrorist, islamic apologist, common muslim, professional, professor, scientist, journalist, business person, politician, film actor, sportsman, student, housewife, etc. One must have a policy to boycott muslims at every front in order to teach them a lesson and force them to leave islam. Muslims would retaliate violently due to this, but then we must be ready to counter their retaliation.
A revolution is needed to end every trace of islam from this world and this would involve killings of people from both the sides — muslims as well as non-muslims due to islamic retaliation and counter attack by us. But this would be a crusade or religious-war against the enemy of humanity known as islam. Freedom requires determined fight against the evil and this war cannot be won without some sacrifice. But, our own people (99.99% of educated non-muslims) are our biggest obstacle who always take the side of muslims and make then unnecessarily stronger. Otherwise, muslims can be defeated decisively and for ever, as they have been badly defeated so many times in the past in India, Europe, Middle East, etc. They have emerged stronger again only due to support from non-muslims.
Well you said it! the more you fight it the more it gets stronger!!! there must be something about this religion don't you think? And let me remind you that this will be the religion to dominate the world, rather folks like you like or not. So stop trying to fight it because it just makes it STRONGER! Oh and you forgot to mention that the majority of who convert to Islam are women . WHY? Did you ever ask your self this? I'll tell you why? Lets us see what Judaic and Christian texts say about women.
“No wickedness comes anywhere near the wickedness of a woman…..Sin began with a woman and thanks to her we all must die” (Ecclesiasticus 25:19, 24)
“A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. I don’t permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent. For Adam was formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner,” said St. Paul (Timothy 2:11-14).
Other people like St. Tertullian had a similar opinion, “Do you not know that you are each an Eve? The sentence of God on this sex of yours lives in this age: the guilt must of necessity live too. You are the Devil’s gateway: You are the unsealer of the forbidden tree: You are the first deserter of the divine law: You are she who persuaded him whom the devil was not valiant enough to attack. You destroyed so easily God’s image, man. On account of your desert even the Son of God had to die.”
“What is this you have done?” The woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.” To the woman he (God) said, “I will greatly increase your pains in childbearing; with pain you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.” To Adam he (God) said, “Because you listen to your wife and ate from the tree about which I commanded you,( Genesis 3:6-17)
“let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law, and if they will learn anything, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for woman to speak in the church.” (Corinthians 14:34-35
rationalist:
The islamic law is that if a man divorces his wife three times and wants to marry her again she MUST marry another man (called al mohallel) and have sex with him, before she is allowed to marry her husband again.
Needless to say that women has no such right.
As you know, divorce in Islam is very easy for men NOT for women.
floppy: You are not serrious. Are you?
Venktech:Your post shows intelligence and good knowlege of the evil of Islam.
However allow me to comment:
I think 99.99% is way high estimate. I understand your frustration with the ignorance of the majority of people world wide about the truth of Islam, including the majority of Muslims.
But, cheer up. If you know Arabic I can refer few sites which demonstrate the reverse trend in the issue of the Islamic spread.
A huge numer, I mean millions upon millions of Muslims are leaving Islam. You see, as you may know Muslims are not allowed to ask questions about their own faith. They are not allowed to touch the Bible, many did and they converteed.Now, thank God for the internet Many Muslims leave Islam risking their lives. I heard an X-Muslim who wants to sue Islam for robbing him happiness for 30 years.
Many of those X-Muslims are champions in exposing the truth about Islam with great success. An Example is Dr. Ali Sina.
Islam was contained in the ME for over 1400 years. 9/11 Exposed Islam to the West. Do not underestimate the westerners' intellectulity. There are a huge number who became in such a short time SCHOLARS in Islam.
We must find a replacement to the oil. I have voiced this concern in the early 60s in Europe.
However, EDUCATION is our effective weapon in fighting Islam.
I, personally, have noticed the positive trend, despite the catastrophic elction of a Muslim as prsident, since 9/11. I start writing about Islam on 9/12/2001.
It is a nerve recking slow process, but I have hope, mybe not in my life time, but THE END OF ISLAM WILL COME.
God save Amerrica from within
please go and learn about islam.this baseless rhetoric wont help.peace be upon the seekers of truth.
Islam is a "good" way to spread AIDS.
Rationalist, that’s why I call allah is an all wise pimp, pleasing every man.
Venktesh, Very agree with you
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Rationalist: you are right, but all the time she has to spend with the "other man" is the time required for sex, get "triple talaq'd" plus the 3 menses waiting period, then she and old hubby can get back together.
Ronyvo: FDM has a GOSH, you've just fallen victim to it!
Venktesh: I agree with much of what you say, but ponder this; you say: "It is utter nonsense to say that “hate islam but love muslims” –it is self contradictory"
Actually that is not so, unless you belive that "hate the sin, love the sinner" is also contradictory.
Being married to a Muslim is a living hell. Once you marry him, you have little chance of getting out. After all this do you still think marrying that handsome, dark complexioned, and romantic guy from the Middle East is worth it?
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@shamu16
There is no AIDS report from muslim <50 countries.
@ronvyo The islamic law is that if a man divorces his wife three times and wants to marry her again she MUST marry another man (called al mohallel) and have sex with him, before she is allowed to marry her husband again.
——— now now, what if that woman becomes pregnant during the time she is with the other man? Can she still get back to her former husband? I am of the opinion that Islam allows circulation of women for sex and there is no emotional attachment or love. Agree?
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@ DashBrd
You sure about that? I wonder. Muslims are a closed lot I am sure many thousands of cases of AIDS go unreported. The country I live in there quite a number reports of muslims with aids.
I am cinfused again, no bombs going off,,,how do you divorce your wife three times, does this mean that you can divorce and get married three times but the last time – fourth time she has to have sex with another man and then you can marry. great for the woman,,LOL..imagine that what lot of sex for free and legal…where do i sign…crazy man
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DIS IS ALL BULLSHYT!
You must be mistaken, that stench you smell is the liar and criminal Muhammad and his odorous pagan god Allah.
Please give more information about "Princess". I cannot find that movie.
Crash Course….huh
here you will find real statements of Muslimah from around world!
ttp://islamgreatreligion.wordpress.com/2009/11/12/what-does-being-muslim-women-mean-to-you/
any non muslim woman who wants to marry a muslim must not convert to marry muslim man but she must marry a muslim under civil marriage law….that will save her from talaq at will of a muslim man and morever that will prove that they respect her family and her feelings …the true love the muslim man has will be visible the moment a non muslim female doesnt succumb to emotional blackmail in the name of love…remember love jihad before u jump and pump…
“When a husband and wife look at each other with love, Allah looks at both of them with mercy.” (Sahih Bukhari 6:19 Tirmidhi 14:79)
I have been happily married to a wonderful muslim man for three years. Muslim men actually have a huge amount of respect for women and dont sleep around. Meanwhile I have friends who are single and let themselves be used up and spat out by Western men time and time again. Until Western men learn the art of romance and respect for women and decide they value marriage rather than sleeping with as many women as possible Western women will continue to look elsewhere!
Islam is a religion of peace. And Allah will never forgive shirk. Learn Islam correctly rather than made up lies. There is still time for you. Watch Zakir Naik and he will answer all your questions. For those bashing Islam on this site or whenever in life…repent while you can. Allah is merciful and all forgiving.
You know guys, Allah gives u a difficult rules to avoid u to being cruel to your wife by divorcing her. The rules that the divorced wife should marry first before she got back to her former husband, that remind u not too easy to divorce your wife, u must think many many times, Allah actually hates divorce (Al Qur'an). I'm happy now to be real muslim because now I don't drink alcohol, not smoking, and all activities that are prohibited in Islam (not gambling, not cheating etc), all to avoid us to go to hell, but we will go heaven instead. Good luck…..
You”ve got it all wrong mate. A Muslim Husband is by far the best husband I live like a queen and
Have the best companion (my husband) . Don’t have to worry about him cheating, drinking, drugs and all other corrupted things you guys do because Islan teaches us that and just like Prophet Muhammad said ” the Believer with the most complete faith is the one with the best character, and the best of them are those who treat their wives the best”. So stop spreading false belief and go to a learned Muslim for info and you might learn a thing or two. Islam is the perfect way of life, and if it was as bad as you say it is it would not be the fastest growing religion .
Hi, AnonymOus. You are lucky. Trouble will start when you king decides to marry one or two more wives.
The reason why marrying more than one wife is even in the Quran is because during the time of Muhammed (peace be upon him), lots of women's husbands were dying and children were becoming orphans. Just like every where else in the world, women relied on men. It was ok to take up more wives not for the pleasure aspect of it but to support them with food, homes, and protection.
You are truly an idiot.. do your research. You think just because you stick a reference to a quotation its true? You are just spreading hate.
Such comments are expected when you look at an ayah from the Quran and text from the Hadith the way you want to look at it I.e."trying" to find a flaw in the religion of islam,
Observe that a muslim will never attack Christianity by calling Jesus names coz the fact is we love him may peace and blessings of Allah be upon him.
If these are questions in ur minds then why not bring it up in the presence of a practicing Muslim rather than talk about it and not know the true meaning of what was quoted above.
If only you knew the rights of women in Islam and how gigot respected they are.
A Muslim will be punished for not treating his wife mother it daughter in the manner they are deserved highly elevated
My humble request if these are questions then ask n dont slander the religion and it's followers.
It wouldn't make sense if I quote something from the bible when I have no clue as to what context is it referring to
I hope this makes sense
-Your Muslim brother
I agree I'm from the United States and I'm in love with a muslim raised Indian man. The most important is to truly love your partner before jumping into marriage. My belief is praying for mercy is in your own hands, whomever you pray to call him what you may but he is thus our creator. As far as arranged marriages go.. I feel that there is nothing wrong with that. In contrast, maybe your arranged partner lives half way across the world.
and you happened to come across your path or destiny??? I'm getting off track… Just remember come as may, love your partner, cherish them and obey your vows together and acceptance will follow
Hahahaha you are taking the verses of the Quran completely out of context. I'm an American woman married to a Muslim man (for 10 years) and he treats me like a princess! I'm his only wife and we have 3 beautiful daughters. I'm not veiled nor feel like an "infidel". Be careful what you act like you know so much about, because I grew up Catholic and the Bible has some pretty racy things in it too. It's not about the direct quotes (those are from ages ago), it's about accepting all of God's people as friends. Oh, and we live in the middle east, there are tons of Christians- our best friends are Christian!
I am muslim a lot of the information in this article is not true the people who comment so digustingly certainly don’t know the true way of islam islam is not a cruel religion and gives women a lot of resoect I am a muslim female and love my husband islam protects women and her rights she is not a sex object western countries have used a women as a sex object puttin a half naked women on almost all advertisements to promote an item so are the west not makina a women a sex object!
I am muslim a lot of the information in this article is not true the people who comment so digustingly certainly don’t know the true way of islam islam is not a cruel religion and gives women a lot of resoect I am a muslim female and love my husband islam protects women and her rights she is not a sex object western countries have used a women as a sex object puttin a half naked women on almost all advertisements to promote an item so are the west not makina a women a sex object! Disgusted at your racist comments
then you and you're husband are not truelly following Islam.
you said: "a lot of the information in this article is not true" while the information in this article is extracted from quran/hadith.
Are you saying that the quran is not true?
this site is a fraud to society! if you dont understand fully islam, dont brain wash people with your foolish views.
actually it is proven that Muslim marriages with a non muslim as a wife are long lasting! there are hardly any means for divorce and men cant beat there wifes, islam is against that!
it's most likely you'll want to marry him as with your Green Card there's very very little one can hope to do HAHAHA things have changed so fast!!!!
What about those muslim men who do fall in love? Cannot a man fall in love with a western woman just because his destiny was to be born in a muslim family?
The western woman has some choice, what about the muslim man? As the author of Dubai London says about his character:
"Tarek, teaches us that the religious impact on people’s lives is bigger, because he is a man and not a woman. He is what people would perceive to be the one strong and in control of his life choices. Only to discover that he is not… "
You can also read this story Dubai London, the return ticket (the impossible love), that tries to see this "love decision" from the perspective of all people involved, without being judgmental… It shows the internal struggle of both characters, until they make a final choice…